xfs: go straight to real allocations for direct I/O COW writes

When we allocate COW fork blocks for direct I/O writes we currently first
create a delayed allocation, and then convert it to a real allocation
once we've got the delayed one.

As there is no good reason for that this patch instead makes use call
xfs_bmapi_write from the COW allocation path.  The only interesting bits
are a few tweaks the low-level allocator to allow for this, most notably
the need to remove the call to xfs_bmap_extsize_align for the cowextsize
in xfs_bmap_btalloc - for the existing convert case it's a no-op, but
for the direct allocation case it would blow up our block reservation
way beyond what we reserved for the transaction.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>