IB/hfi1: Optimize pio_buf and send_context structs

Both pio_buf and send_context structs have oversized
fields and have cachelines that can be optimized.

Reduce oversized fields for both structs.
Make sure pio_buf struct fits within a cacheline.
Move read-only fields to their own cacheline in
send_context struct.

All of this will avoid cacheline trading as the ring
progresses and pio buffers/send contexts are used.

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Sebastian Sanchez <sebastian.sanchez@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>