IB/iser: Post initial receive buffers before sending the final login request

An iser target may send iscsi NO-OP PDUs as soon as it marks the iSER
iSCSI session as fully operative.  This means that there is window
where there are no posted receive buffers on the initiator side, so
it's possible for the iSER RC connection to break because of RNR NAK /
retry errors.  To fix this, rely on the flags bits in the login
request to have FFP (0x3) in the lower nibble as a marker for the
final login request, and post an initial chunk of receive buffers
before sending that login request instead of after getting the login
response.

Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>