fuse: fix double request_end()

Refcounting of request is broken when fuse_abort_conn() is called and
request is on the fpq->io list:

 - ref is taken too late
 - then it is not dropped

Fixes: 0d8e84b0 ("fuse: simplify request abort")
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v4.2
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>