net: also make sch_handle_egress() drop monitor ready

Follow-up for 8a3a4c6e ("net: make sch_handle_ingress() drop
monitor ready") to also make the egress side drop monitor ready.

Also here only TC_ACT_SHOT is a clear indication that something
went wrong. Hence don't provide false positives to drop monitors
such as 'perf record -e skb:kfree_skb ...'.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>