IB/hns: Some items of qpc need to take user param

Some items of qpc need to take user param when modified qp
state.

Signed-off-by: Lijun Ou <oulijun@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Dongdong Huang(Donald) <hdd.huang@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Wei Hu (Xavier) <xavier.huwei@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Salil Mehta <salil.mehta@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>