Btrfs: add ref_count and free function for btrfs_bio

1: ref_count is simple than current RBIO_HOLD_BBIO_MAP_BIT flag
   to keep btrfs_bio's memory in raid56 recovery implement.
2: free function for bbio will make code clean and flexible, plus
   forced data type checking in compile.

Changelog v1->v2:
 Rename following by David Sterba's suggestion:
 put_btrfs_bio() -> btrfs_put_bio()
 get_btrfs_bio() -> btrfs_get_bio()
 bbio->ref_count -> bbio->refs

Signed-off-by: Zhao Lei <zhaolei@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Miao Xie <miaox@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>