mmc: block: remove req back pointer

Just as we can use blk_mq_rq_from_pdu() to get the per-request
tag we can use blk_mq_rq_to_pdu() to get a request from a tag.
Introduce a static inline helper so we are on the clear what
is happening.

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Linus Walleij <linus.walleij@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Ulf Hansson <ulf.hansson@linaro.org>