xfs: don't fail xfs_extent_busy allocation

We don't just need the structure to track busy extents which can be
avoided with a synchronous transaction, but also to keep track of
pending discard.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>