scsi: remove abuses of scsi_populate_tag

Unless we want to build a SPI tag message we should just check SCMD_TAGGED
instead of reverse engineering a tag type through the use of
scsi_populate_tag_msg.

Also rename the function to spi_populate_tag_msg, make it behave like the
other spi message helpers, and move it to the spi transport class.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Mike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>