NFSv4.1: Fix pnfs_put_lseg races

pnfs_layoutreturn_free_lseg_async() can also race with inode put in
the general case. We can now fix this, and also simplify the code.

Cc: Peng Tao <tao.peng@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>