spi: spi-axi: fix potential use-after-free after deregistration

Take an extra reference to the controller before deregistering it to
prevent use-after-free in the interrupt handler in case an interrupt
fires before the line is disabled.

Fixes: b1353d1c ("spi: Add Analog Devices AXI SPI Engine controller support")
Acked-by: Lars-Peter Clausen <lars@metafoo.de>
Signed-off-by: Johan Hovold <johan@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>