ipvs: load balance IPv4 connections from a local process

This allows IPVS to load balance connections made by a local process.
For example a proxy server running locally.

External client --> pound:443 -> Local:443 --> IPVS:80 --> RealServer

Signed-off-by: Siim Põder <siim@p6drad-teel.net>
Signed-off-by: Malcolm Turnbull <malcolm@loadbalancer.org>
Signed-off-by: Simon Horman <horms@verge.net.au>