netfilter: ipset: Null pointer exception in ipset list:set

If we use before/after to add an element to an empty list it will cause
a kernel panic.

$> cat crash.restore
create a hash:ip
create b hash:ip
create test list:set timeout 5 size 4
add test b before a

$> ipset -R < crash.restore

Executing the above will crash the kernel.

Signed-off-by: Vishwanath Pai <vpai@akamai.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Hunt <johunt@akamai.com>
Signed-off-by: Jozsef Kadlecsik <kadlec@blackhole.kfki.hu>