xfs: check offsets of variable length structures

Some of the directory/attr structures contain variable-length objects,
so the enclosing structure doesn't have a meaningful fixed size at
compile time.  We can check the offsets of the members before the
variable-length member, so do those.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>