target/user: Report capability of handling out-of-order completions to userspace

TCMU_MAILBOX_FLAG_CAP_OOOC was introduced, and userspace can check the flag
for out-of-order completion capability support.

Also update the document on how to use the feature.

Signed-off-by: Sheng Yang <sheng@yasker.org>
Reviewed-by: Andy Grover <agrover@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>