nvme: merge nvme_abort_req and nvme_timeout

We want to be able to return bettern error values frmo nvme_timeout, which
is significantly easier if the two functions are merged.  Also clean up and
reduce the printk spew so that we only get one message per abort.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>