dm raid: allow resize during recovery

Resizing a RAID set during recovery can be allowed, because the MD
resynchronization thread will either stop any ongoing recovery in case
of shrinking below the current recovery position or carry on recovery
to the new size if the set is growing.

Signed-off-by: Heinz Mauelshagen <heinzm@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>