untangle fsnotify_d_instantiate() a bit

First of all, don't bother calling it if inode is NULL -
that makes inode argument unused.  Moreover, do it *before*
dropping ->d_lock, not right after that (and don't bother
grabbing ->d_lock in it, of course).

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>