IB/qib: Use standard refcount wrapper for QPs

Use the standard driver wrapper for QP reference counters.
This makes the code more maintainable.

Fixes: Commit 4d6f85c3 ("IB/rdmavt, IB/qib, IB/hfi1: Use new QP put get routines")
Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Sebastian Sanchez <sebastian.sanchez@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>