IB/Verbs: Reform cm related part in IB-core cma/ucm

Use raw management helpers to reform cm related part in IB-core cma/ucm.

Few checks focus on the device cm type rather than the port capability,
directly pass port 1 works currently, but can't support mixing cm type
device in future.

Signed-off-by: Michael Wang <yun.wang@profitbricks.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Tested-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgunthorpe@obsidianresearch.com>
Tested-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>