dax: assert that i_rwsem is held exclusive for writes

Make sure all callers follow the same locking protocol, given that DAX
transparantly replaced the normal buffered I/O path.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>