ANDROID: build: update ABI definitions

Update these defines to be inclusive:
* KMI_WHITELIST -> KMI_SYMBOL_LIST
* ADDITIONAL_KMI_WHITELISTS -> ADDITIONAL_KMI_SYMBOL_LISTS
* KMI_WHITELIST_STRICT_MODE -> KMI_SYMBOL_LIST_STRICT_MODE

Change-Id: Ie247fb7a1ef9ff27c06003ab0861fc9a790b10c6
Signed-off-by: Will McVicker <willmcvicker@google.com>
Bug: 161912438