IB/srp: stop sharing the host lock with SCSI

We don't need protection against the SCSI stack, so use our own lock to
allow parallel progress on separate CPUs.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
[ broken out and small cleanups by David Dillow ]
Signed-off-by: David Dillow <dillowda@ornl.gov>