xen/gntalloc: Change gref_lock to a mutex

The event channel release function cannot be called under a spinlock
because it can attempt to acquire a mutex due to the event channel
reference acquired when setting up unmap notifications.

Signed-off-by: Daniel De Graaf <dgdegra@tycho.nsa.gov>
Signed-off-by: Konrad Rzeszutek Wilk <konrad.wilk@oracle.com>