xen: Make XEN_MAX_DOMAIN_MEMORY have more sensible defaults

Which is that 128GB is not going to happen with 32-bit PV DomU.
Lets use something more realistic. Also update the 64-bit to 500GB
which is the max a PV guest can do.

Signed-off-by: Maxim Uvarov <maxim.uvarov@oracle.com>
[v1: Updated 128GB->500GB for 64-bit]
Signed-off-by: Konrad Rzeszutek Wilk <konrad.wilk@oracle.com>