can: mcp251x: read-modify-write eflag only when needed

Use read-modify-write instead of a simple write to change the register
contents, to close existing the race window between the original manual
read and write.

Signed-off-by: Sascha Hauer <s.hauer@pengutronix.de>
Signed-off-by: Marc Kleine-Budde <mkl@pengutronix.de>
Acked-by: Wolfgang Grandegger <wg@grandegger.com>