ceph: throw out dirty caps metadata, data on session teardown

The remove_session_caps() helper is called when an MDS closes out our
session (either normally, or as a result of a failed reconnect), and when
we tear down state for umount.  If we remove the last cap, and there are
no cap migrations in progress, then there is little hope of us flushing
out that data to the mds (without heroic efforts to reconnect and flush).

So, to avoid leaving inodes pinned (due to dirty state) and crashing after
umount, throw out dirty caps state and unpin the inodes.  Print a warning
to the console so we know something was lost.

NOTE: Although we drop wrbuffer refs, we don't actually mark pages clean;
maybe a truncate should be queued?

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>