IB/srp: don't move active requests to their own list

We use req->scmnd != NULL to indicate an active request, so there's no
need to keep a separate list for them. We can afford the array iteration
during error handling, and dropping it gives us one less item that needs
lock protection.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
[ broken out and small cleanups by David Dillow ]
Signed-off-by: David Dillow <dillowda@ornl.gov>