[CIFS] Do not time out posix brl requests when using new posix setfileinfo

request and do not time out slow requests to a server that is still responding
well to other threads

Suggested by jra of Samba team

Signed-off-by: Steve French <sfrench@us.ibm.com>
(cherry picked from 89b57148115479eef074b8d3f86c4c86c96ac969 commit)