RDMA/nes: Fix terminate during AE

Fix for reset which happens right after sending a terminate message.
Terminate timer is not deleted when the connection is closed.

Signed-off-by: Tatyana Nikolova <Tatyana.E.Nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Faisal Latif <Faisal.Latif@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>