libceph: activate message data assignment checks

The mds client no longer tries to assign zero-length message data,
and the osd client no longer sets its data info more than once.
This allows us to activate assertions in the messenger to verify
these things never happen.

This resolves both of these:
    http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/4263
    http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/4284



Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Farnum <greg@inktank.com>