add anom report and more logs to Ringer haptics

Some users reported their incoming calls did not vibrate even though
their settings indicate vibrate.  It's not clear what exactly is
happening so more logs should be added to the haptics path.

Flag: com.android.server.telecom.flags.get_ringer_mode_anom_report
Bug: 307389562
Test: manual
Change-Id: If2b88c7c6141007899d870e49e334d758bd02745