bluetooth: configure wake by BT according to device state

Monitor device state changes and configure wake by BT.

Bug: 371030412
Bug: 366432079
Test: m -j, manual test suspend
Test: atest AdapterSuspendTest
Flag: com.android.bluetooth.flags.adapter_suspend_mgmt
Change-Id: I091196103cb09bfae7b146da4e999ed0baf02f26