Surface: Add a death notification to SurfaceListener

As we move away from IGBPs being available generally, clients may still
want to know if the other end of the Surface dies on them.

With no binder object available to them, if the client requests it, we
wrap the callback in a proxy and notify via
SurfaceListener::onRemoteDied when they request it via
SurfaceListener::needsDeathNotify.

See go/warren-buffers for more details.

BYPASS_IGBP_IGBC_API_REASON=warren buffers

Bug: 340933794
Flag: com.android.graphics.libgui.flags.wb_platform_api_improvements
Test: new tests in libgui_test
Change-Id: I102c21436ba3d852481bfa636c5de102ef244e4a