Update producer's cache of frame events in de/queue

* Cache is only updated during queue and dequeue if
    the getFrameTimestamps is enabled.
* The consumer avoids sending a copy of the acquire
    fence back to the producer since the producer
    already has a copy.

Test: adb shell /data/nativetest/libgui_test/libgui_test
--gtest_filter=*GetFrameTimestamps*

Change-Id: I6a8b965ae79441a40893b5df937f9ed004fe7359