Trampoline atrace definitions through libbinder to libcutils

This avoids adding libcutils (additional) deps to aidls that
generate binder trace tags (the default for cpp backends now).

Others:
1. Added libbinder to libinputflinger_base_defaults to fix the
build
2. Fixed redefinition of ATRACE_TAG by redefining package manager
specific trace functions in a separate source

Test: Manual
Bug: 161393989
Change-Id: I7b83c0d11c3fa98bf31c29a880853566ad0909c3