Update NotificationStatsLogger when a Notification is updated or removed

- Ensures logging of previous expansion updates when an updated item
  becomes visible.
- Clears tracked expansion states for removed Notifications.

Bug: 308623704
Test: atest SystemUITests:com.android.systemui.statusbar.notification.stack.ui.view.NotificationStatsLoggerTest
Test: atest SystemUITests:com.android.systemui.statusbar.notification.collection.coordinator.NotificationStatsLoggerCoordinatorTest
Flag: ACONFIG com.android.systemui.notifications_live_data_store_refactor DEVELOPMENT
Change-Id: I93c9aca882d1a1f932b7c5a0a2f5dd5ab5d2eb62