Removes Lifetime extension on Action Click

Removes the FLAG_LIFETIME_EXTENDED_BY_DIRECT_REPLY when an action click
occurs. This allows a notification to be cancelled by an app after a
user clicks on one of the actions, even if it has previously been
lifetime extended.

Bug: 230652175
Test: atest NotificationManagerServiceTest
Change-Id: I198424998b64d09097b92aaf56556bd06e2a9c5d