Disable AArch64 XOM when not using lld.

AArch64 execute-only memory is only supported when using lld as the
linker. There's still a few modules which don't use lld, so in those
cases we need to disable this option.

Bug: 77958880
Test: Module with use_clang_lld false builds without XOM
Test: Module without use_clang_lld defined builds with XOM
Change-Id: I4ab961c4d7342c54c6b40b9facfe18a45ed883bd