Skip packaging cross container cc deps of apk-in-apex

With this change, apk-in-apex will skip packaging a cc library
dependency if the dependency is part of the platform or part of a
different apex.

Bug: 375473764
Test: go test ./java ./apex
Test: presubmits

Change-Id: I91351973c2c941c7531e9f7d4879049eab766a12