Fixing failures in CtsSimPhonebookProviderTestCases

The failures were likely caused by aosp/1440474. When updating by
index the record number and efid must be set because the AdnRecord
that is passed in is directly cached instead of being reloaded.

Bug: 188917643
Test: atest CtsSimPhonebookProviderTestCases

Change-Id: I0d794ad4e05d9ef1277136f447bc6ca3878127f5