drbd: drop wrong debug asserts, fix recently introduced race

 commit 2372c38caadeaebc68a5ee190782c2a0df01edc3
 drbd: fix for possible deadlock on IO error during resync

introduced a new ASSERT, which turns out to be wrong. Drop it.

Also serialize the state change to D_DISKLESS with the after state
change work of the -> D_FAILED transition, don't open a new race.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>