cne: Add reference count for Smart Wireless Interface Manager

Add the reference count for Smart Wireless Interface Manager to
know whether there are any process who still has the socket in
question in use or not.
Enable INET DIAG.
Redefine the TCP_FLAG as it gives compiling error when an enum is defined
by a function return.

Change-Id: I1aa9c810fec2e332048c9ef4199ec3f996bc3a75
Signed-off-by: Chinh Tran <chinht@codeaurora.org>
[mattw@codeaurora.org: resolve conflicts encountered with port to 3.18]
Signed-off-by: Matt Wagantall <mattw@codeaurora.org>