nfsd4: better reservation of head space for krb5

RPC_MAX_AUTH_SIZE is scattered around several places.  Better to set it
once in the auth code, where this kind of estimate should be made.  And
while we're at it we can leave it zero when we're not using krb5i or
krb5p.

Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>