RDMA/qedr: Dispatch port active event from qedr_add

Relying on qede to trigger qedr on startup is problematic. When probing
both if qedr loads slowly then qede can assume qedr is missing and not
trigger it. This patch adds a triggering from qedr and protects against
a race via an atomic bit.

Signed-off-by: Ram Amrani <Ram.Amrani@cavium.com>
Signed-off-by: Ariel Elior <Ariel.Elior@cavium.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>