xprtrdma: Ensure ia->ri_id->qp is not NULL when reconnecting

Devesh Sharma <Devesh.Sharma@Emulex.Com> reports that after a
disconnect, his HCA is failing to create a fresh QP, leaving
ia_ri->ri_id->qp set to NULL. But xprtrdma still allows RPCs to
wake up and post LOCAL_INV as they exit, causing an oops.

rpcrdma_ep_connect() is allowing the wake-up by leaking the QP
creation error code (-EPERM in this case) to the RPC client's
generic layer. xprt_connect_status() does not recognize -EPERM, so
it kills pending RPC tasks immediately rather than retrying the
connect.

Re-arrange the QP creation logic so that when it fails on reconnect,
it leaves ->qp with the old QP rather than NULL.  If pending RPC
tasks wake and exit, LOCAL_INV work requests will flush rather than
oops.

On initial connect, leaving ->qp == NULL is OK, since there are no
pending RPCs that might use ->qp. But be sure not to try to destroy
a NULL QP when rpcrdma_ep_connect() is retried.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>