nvmet: confirm sq percpu has scheduled and switched to atomic

percpu_ref_kill is not enough to prevent subsequent
percpu_ref_tryget_live from failing. Hence call
perfcpu_ref_kill_confirm to make it safe.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>