netfilter: nf_tables: support variable sized data in nft_data_init()

Add a size argument to nft_data_init() and pass in the available space.
This will be used by the following patches to support variable sized
set element data.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>