dm raid: use dm_arg_set API in constructor

- use dm_arg_set API in ctr and its callees parse_raid_params() and dev_parms()

- introduce _in_range() function to check a value is in a [ min, max ] range;
  this is to support more callers in parsing parameters etc. in the future

- correct comment on MAX_RAID_DEVICES

Signed-off-by: Heinz Mauelshagen <heinzm@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>